Instead of Complaining, Have You Tried Praying?
God Is Patient, God Is Kind…
God is so incredibly patient. Do you believe that? Have you seen that in your own life? Because I have.
Today, I am reminded of the Israelites in the wilderness. They are so easy to pick on until you realize how accurate a reflection of us they oftentimes are.
They complained A LOT.
They had spent SO LONG crying out to God for help. God heard their cries & led Moses to lead them to their rescue & escape from years of being the slave labor of the Pharoah. But nothing was ever good enough for them.
God Always Has a Plan…. When Chaos Seems to be Winning… God Is Working
It had started out as an offering from a king who respected Joseph (remember him?) (Genesis 47) but when that king died & it was now years & years later, the Israelites had multiplied so much that the new king in power was thinking to himself, “they could overtake us, so let’s just squash that right now & make them our slaves & oppress them… oh, & kill all their baby sons.” (Exodus 1)
But God had a plan.
So God led Moses (Exodus 3), did miracles (Exodus 7-11), wowed literally everyone, & after showing that He ALONE was God Almighty, He got His people FREE.
But then, it didn’t stop there. He made sure their clothes never wore out & their shoes stayed good (Deuteronomy 29:5) … And God led them with a pillar of cloud by day & of fire by night for light (Exodus 13:21). He parted the Red Sea (Exodus 14:21). He provided them with FOOD they didn’t have to farm or buy (Exodus 16). He had water gush from hit rocks to provide water where there was none (Exodus 17).
God HAD them. He cared for them & protected them & provided for them & FREED them... against ALL ODDS!
Instead of Complaining, Have You Tried Praying?
And yet it seems that every single chapter detailing this journey was met with a NEW COMPLAINT AGAINST GOD.
But you know what the absolute wildest part of it is? I am not entirely convinced that God would even withhold what they wanted if they had just believed in Him enough to ASK Him.
Grumbling at every turn. Lusting after the few comforts they had had before, in captivity. Lusting after the known & fearing the unknown. Lusting after comforts over FREEDOM.
It really just sounds DUMB.
Until I realize I do the same thing.
Forever a Work-in-Progress… & Thank God (really, THANK Him) That He NEVER Gives Up on Us
I try to self-solve & self-soothe my way through hard stuff. I avoid it even sometimes. I feel frustrated & overwhelmed & despairing.
And eventually, God gives me a gentle nudge reminder that “oh yeah… God.”
So dumb.
Now, please realize I have definitely grown a lot in the past years with this… but I definitely still have some growing left to do.
Our Complaining Shows We Really Don’t Trust Him
I also see a consistent thread that the reason God was so upset about the complaining was that it showed that the people didn’t believe in Him.
I mean, can you blame Him? I mean, leave out the fact that He literally made us AND the world we live in (without our help, at that… & out of nothing but His WORD) … leave that very important part of the equation out & JUST consider EVERYTHING He did supernaturally to make sure you were set free & were free indeed. Miraculous! Did they not remember?
Instead of complaining & grumbling, they could have taken a moment to consider ALL God had done for them ALREADY & gone TO HIM with their struggles!
Believe that if He did all that for you… He is worth believing & ASKING…. Not complaining.
How Much Do I Lose Out on Because I Don’t Believe He Can Do More Than I Can?
How much do I miss out on because I don’t bother to consider believing in Him over myself or my circumstances or my resources or my time or my hurts?
Lack satisfaction? Ask Him to teach you contentment.
Lack resources? Ask Him to provide.
Lack time for something? Ask Him for timing.
Lack courage or wisdom? Ask for it.
Lack energy? Ask Him for a way forward.
Don’t resort to trusting yourself, your circumstances, or your hurts to guide you.
Don’t resort to grumbling & complaining about your life.
ASK HIM. Turn to Him. Trust Him. Believe in Him.
God Is GOD & You Are NOT
He can do far more than you’re capable of doing. Do you trust that? … And ACT on it by turning to Him in everything?
“Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us, to Him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus to all generations, forever and ever. Amen.” (Ephesians 3:20-21)
How do you know what to ask for, though? By reading your Bible & praying for wisdom on that very thing.
“Because You Can’t” Is Not a Valid Excuse… Because You Know God CAN
And I think that’s where some lose interest, because complaining feels like we’ve acknowledged that there is a problem that we can’t fix, so we’re free to avoid it & live how we see fit. As if we’re absolved from accountability because it’s “not our fault.”
But God can. We know God can. But we have to trust God can & ASK Him. And God isn’t at all fooled at the fact that our complaining just seems a more comfortable solution… a copout.
Asking seems like more work. Asking is admitting we can’t & need help. Asking is letting someone else be in charge. Asking brings accountability. Asking may require work on our part that we’re intimidated about.
Don’t Stay Stuck… PRAY to the God Who CAN
But don’t stay there. Don’t stay stuck. Trust God knows what He’s doing AND wants a life that is best for you, not just mediocre or “surviving.”
“The thief [Satan] does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I [Jesus] have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” (John 10:10)
It doesn’t mean the hard will stop, but it does mean He’ll be your enough in the hard.
So ASK HIM.
Shine HOPE by daring to ask the God Who made you & gave His all for you… rather than just copping out with complaints that anger Him because they reveal a lack of trust.
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