Everything?

“Whether you eat or drink, or WHATEVER you do, do it ALL for the GLORY OF GOD.” (1 Corinthians 10:31, emphasis added)

“Be holy, for I am holy.” (Leviticus 19:2; 1 Peter 1:15-16)

I don’t know about you, but when I have always read these verses, I would get a little quicker past a few verses like the ones I shared above.

I know I don’t measure up to that standard. I know I am nowhere NEAR being holy apart from the righteousness accounted to me through JESUS.

So, reading verses like that just seems like “lalala, I can’t HEAR you!” because the impossibility of it mixed with the directness of it made me uncomfortable.

That doesn’t mean I discount them or think they’re not entirely important–because God says it, but I never really considered the fact that IF GOD SAYS IT… it MUST be possible.

Nothing So Obviously Rebellious

But, if I am really, truly honest with myself, I can tell that there are certain sins that I’m okay with—& that’s not okay.

Now, I don’t mean that in the way of picking & choosing certain ones of the Ten Commandments given by God to Moses (Deuteronomy 5:1-21) & saying, “I think THIS ONE is okay… oh, & THIS ONE, too!” Nothing so obviously rebellious.

It’s more that if I consider the command to by HOLY & that WHATEVER I do, ALL should be for God’s glory… weeelllll…. I don’t always 100% live like that–& I should, because God says to.

I mean, most things, sure… I try to anyway… but how often do I stop comparing what I’m okay with… with what GOD says He’s okay with… versus with other people in my life?

Do I let HIM set the gauge on ALL things? Or my church? Or my parents? Or a Christian author? Or my peers?

Who determines for me what God is okay with in my life?

Do I Excuse Things That Promote Sin?

Here’s a BIG example for me that up until my self-imposed “rehab” from reliance on coping mechanisms versus trusting that God’s peace really can be sufficient & I don’t have to be trapped any longer by the “OR ELSE” that comes with maintaining my coping mechanisms for my depression… I can really be free from them & trust God in their place… but that is a rabbit hole from my point…

In my “rehab,” I have not allowed myself to watch any tv (read: binge watch, because once my symptoms hit, I have grown to have zero self-control anymore when it comes to tv-watching once I start as I try to drown out the symptoms). And in this giving up of television… amongst other things… I have found it has become much easier to live in a way that honors God—including & especially my thought life!

Why? I think it’s because although I try not to watch “trashy” television, a lot of it still portrays sin & that sin influences me even in subtle ways I would have never owned up to or even recognized previously because I grew up watching tv & it’s always been considered completely, absolutely acceptable—as long as I am not indulging in “filth” that PROMOTES & openly DISPLAYS sin.

But unless my prayer life & Bible study time outweighs the time I spend influenced by tv, guess which one is most likely going to have the stronger, albeit subtler, influence over me? (Galatians 6:8)

How Do You Think It Makes God Feel?

If I am engaging in something where sin is taken lightly, (aka something that God hates & considers worthy of needing to send Jesus to DIE for us because otherwise the punishment is eternal wretched torment in HELL (Romans 6:23; Isaiah 53:5-6; John 3:16-17)… does it honor Him if I engage in enjoying it?

Imagine your friend confides in you that someone called her fat & laughed at her & it just caught her off guard & deeply cut her & hurt her & she confides in you saying how much it hurts her… then you sit down with her & choose to watch a show where one character or another makes fun of someone’s weight & a laugh track plays… how do you think your friend is going to feel about that being the butt of the joke?

How do you think God feels when He sees you watching or engaging in something that makes light of something He says hurts Him? Namely, SIN? Do you think that honors Him? Pleases Him? Or hurts His heart? How do you think it makes God feel?

If a particular sin is treated dismissively, like no big deal… or promoted or praised, when God says it is worthy of DEATH & eternal punishment in Hell… where Jesus had to DIE because of it… do you think it honors Him to engage in it or excuse it or watch it? Do you think it pleases Him?

How do you think it makes God feel?

Is This Legalism?

This is where my conviction creeps in, because I recognize how much of a surprising change it’s been in me just these last 2.5 ish months just from not watching tv… & now I am realizing that what I have justified–because it’s widely accepted… may not be what’s best for me because I can’t say with full confidence that it doesn’t hurt or dishonor or displease God.

“All things are lawful for me, but not all things are helpful; all things are lawful for me, but not all things edify [build up].” (1 Corinthians 10:23, brackets added)

It’s not a matter of legalism. I can’t be saved by being “good” (Ephesians 2:8-9) & any amount of “good” in me is counted as dirty rags to God (Isaiah 64:6)… it’s ONLY by/through JESUS. Only. (John 14:6)

BUT, it IS a matter of whether I really care about giving God the GLORY in WHATEVER I do…. It IS a matter of whether I will CHOOSE to strive to honor & please God with every choice I make (aka striving to live HOLY & pleasing to GOD).

Where Do I Draw the Line?

What’s more important to me? Salvation with a side of living however I see fit as long as it’s not “TOO” offensive/dishonoring to God?

Where’s my line that I’m willing to draw there?

Where am I willing to hurt Him “just a little”?

Do I care about being HOLY? Or just “good enough”?

Do I justify things because I REALLY LIKE IT & IT’S “NOT THAT BAD”?

Who determines what is GOOD? Me? Or HIM?

Is It Okay to “Simply” Make Light of Any Sin?

God says course language/jesting is wrong. (Ephesians 5:4; Matthew 12:36-37; Ephesians 4:29)

God says complaining & gossip is wrong. (1 Corinthians 10:8-10; Jude 1:14-18; Philippians 2:13-16; Proverbs 16:28; James 4:11)

God says murder & hatred is wrong. (Proverbs 6:16-19; 1 John 4:20)

God says sensuality, lust, & sex outside the context of marriage is wrong. (1 Corinthians 10:8-10; Matthew 15:19; Ephesians 4:19; Mark 7:20-23; Matthew 5:28; 1 Corinthians 7:1-4; 1 Corinthians 6:18)

God says witchcraft is wrong. (1 Samuel 15:23; Galatians 5:19-21)

God says choosing our identity versus letting Him determine that is wrong. (Genesis 1:27; Psalm 139:13-16)

God says sleeping with the same sex is wrong. (Leviticus 18:22; Romans 1:26-27)

What are we okay with watching that makes light of any of that sin because our church always allowed those movies/shows because they weren’t openly engaging in it or promoting it… maybe so our parents were okay with it, our peers encourage it, the world accepts it…?

Have we bothered to ask God what HE is okay with in any of it?

I’m a Sinner… I’m Still Learning to Surrender More to Him for His Glory over My Entertainment

I am not saying all of this because I have it all figured out & always make the right decision or even always know what the right decision is.

I am not here to make the call on where that line ought to be for you.

God says to be 100% convinced in your OWN heart before God… (Romans 14:5) & that if we’re not, & we choose to do it anyway… to US (not necessarily to everyone) it IS sin. (Romans 14:23)

Are you 100% convinced in your heart before God?

The Sins We’re Okay With

The sins we’re okay with… would you say there’s anything you’re okay engaging in that downplays, glorifies, or makes light of anything God hates? Where is the line for you on what you’re okay disappointing, displeasing, or hurting God?

Is there ANY doubt that you’re burying in justifications even though you know very well or even just have the slight inkling idea that maybe God is NOT okay with it?

What sins are you okay with if “to YOU (because of doubt) they are sin”?

SHINE HOPE by being willing to lay down a prayer of surrender whenever God nudges your heart about something, saying, “God, LORD, if there is ANYTHING I do that dishonors or displeases you in the SLIGHTEST, help me to NOT be okay with it anymore. WEED IT OUT of my life! I want my life to strive for holiness AKA a life that seeks to honor & please You with everything I choose. In Jesus’ HOLY name, Amen.”

Amen.

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